Cotherstone: Betty Hutton 6.7.29 – 11.1.06

Cotherstone is an attractive village just a few miles from Barnard Castle.  Named after Anglo-Saxon settlers the village is on a ford of the river Tees and in the 11th century a castle was built here of which only earthworks remain today.  In 1868 the railway came, three local reservoirs were built and the village of Cotherstone grew.  The railway served the local quarries and the disused route winds up the valley and the Teesdale Railway Path makes a great linear walk or cycle route between Barnard Castle and Middleton-in-Teesdale.


THIS SEAT IS PLACED HERE IN LOVING MEMORY OF BETTY HUTTON 6.7.29 – 11.1.06 please enjoy a rest here as you climb the hill as Betty often did

In this green and pleasant spot near to our campsite this lovely bench invites walkers to sit and rest in memory of Betty Hutton who lived until she was 76-years old.  Her friends and / or relatives chose to remember Betty Hutton with a memorial bench, ensuring her connection with Cotherstone continues and is part of community life beyond the graveyard.  A memorial bench is a great way to recognise a link someone had with a place and preserve that association, as well as to pay tribute to the person.


The bench on the hillside near Cotherstone

Streatley: Malc Grant 24.05.1948 – 04.10.2013

Streatley and Goring straddle opposite banks of the river Thames.  The two villages are joined by a river and are lovely places to visit.  Goring is in the Chilterns and Streatley is in the North Wessex Downs, both Areas of Outstanding Natural Beauty.  In early Anglo Saxon times the river Thames was the border between Mercia and Wessex, with Goring in Mercia and under the rule of King Offa and Streatley in Wessex and ruled by King Ine.  We found this a perfect area for walking and followed ancient trails, including The Ridgeway, and interesting sunken ways to the Holies, a lovely chalk woodland on the slopes above Streatley.  It was a sunny winters day and lots of people were out enjoying the fine weather.

In the lovely woods above Streatley in Berkshire

I found this memorial plaque to Malc Grant while exploring among the trees.  The plaque generously shares the bench with other memorials, making this glade a very special place for remembering loved ones for lots of different people.


Malc Grant 24.05.1948 – 04.10.2013 A True Friend – A Good Heart – A Great Voice

Kinlochleven: Tony Schwalbe 1979-2009

By 1909 Kinlochleven had a hydro-electric scheme and aluminium smelter, following the construction of Blackwater Reservoir and 6 kms of pipeline to the valley by navvies.  Crammed dozens to a hut, the navvies worked in harsh conditions among the Scottish mountains and not all of them survived.  The navvies graveyard by Blackwater Reservoir is a sobering spot.  The aluminium smelter employed up to 800 people and the isolated village of Kinlochleven grew.  During the First World War there were two prisoner of war camps around Kinlochleven and the German prisoners worked to build the road on the south side of Loch Leven to support the busy aluminium works.


Overlooking the hydroelectric and former alumimium smelting works in Kinlochleven

The aluminium works is long gone but hydro-electric generation continues in Kinlochleven.  For one family Kinlochleven has other associations and this memorial bench that remembers Tony Schwalbe who died in 2009 after only 30 years, faces the hydro-electric plant.  This memorial plaque is unusual for being engraved in German.


Wir widmen diese Bank unserem Sohn 1979 – Tony Schwalbe – 2009 als Ort der Errinnerung und der Begegung Your footprints on this path may have faded, but your heart never left.



Glencoe: Miss Barbara Fairweather MBE 1917 – 2001

If you have never been, Glencoe Lochan is a real treat.  Take the steep road from the village, park up and you walk in to a fairy tale.  This is Hansel and Gretel and Snow White on their Scottish holiday, an otherworldly place to lose yourself in.  The woodland and lochan were designed with love to ease the homesickness of Donald Smith’s (Lord Strathcona) Canadian wife, Isabella.  The couple met in Labrador and Isabella came to live on Donald’s Glencoe estate but, despite the planting of numerous red wood trees and a lochan with a view of the Pap of Glencoe reflected in its still waters, Isabella never settled and they spent much of their time in North America.


Overlooking the picturesque Glencoe Lochan

This bench with a view over the lochan has a tree stump next to it with memorial plaques to eight different people.  I read them all but it was the plaque to Miss Barbara Fairweather MBE that caught my eye.  This wasn’t just because she was described as a ‘very special lady’, although I have no doubt that she was, but also because we had also visited the lovely Glencoe Folk Museum on our trip.

Barbara Fairweather MBE co-founded the Glencoe Folk Museum with Mrs Rae Grant in 1966 and for Barbara Fairweather this was a life’s work and she collected many of the items on show.  In 1971 the museum was given the two cottages it is now housed in and the museum opened a year later.  The museum collects, preserves and exhibits items relevant to the history of Glencoe, including photographs and is a perfect example of a community museum that has grown with dedication and love.  This isn’t a dry collection of objects, it is a lively and interesting museum that brings alive the people who have lived in the village of valley of Glencoe over the centuries and I can only urge everyone to visit.

Barbara Fairweather also wrote The Folklore of Glencoe in the 1960s and contributed to other local history books.  She was the first editor of the 1745 Association‘s Quarterly Notes and left £500 to the Association for a seat in Kilmuir Cemetery on the Isle of Skye in her will.


In Loving Memory of MISS BARBARA FAIRWEATHER M.B.E. 1917 – 2001 Founder Of The Glencoe & N. Lorn Folk Museum A Very Special Lady

I do not always get to see a photograph of the people whose memorial benches I write about but in the case of Barbara Fairweather there is a portrait seated in her home with a cat on her lap.  The portrait can be seen in the Museum and Barbara Fairweather looks very relaxed and content in her lovely home.

Barbara Fairweather was the great grandaunt of a young woman from New Zealand, Rachel, who has written a lovely blog post with stunning photographs of her visit to Glencoe where she explored some of her family history.


The collection of eight memorials on the tree trunk alongside the bench

Formby: Leon James Quarless 1.9.88 – 2.9.14

Formby is one of those places we go back to regularly to walk along the sands and feel the sea breeze, search for red squirrels in the pine woods and explore the sheltered corners of the unstable sand dunes.  On our last visit I found this moving memorial bench to Leon James Quarless.  A story that ends with a young man dying immediately after his 26th birthday is never going to be a happy one but I was struck by the love and the joy in the words on the plaque on this memorial bench.  Describing the young man as ‘happy’ and ‘funny, loving and caring’, the message told me the many ways Leon James Quarless touched the world, as a ‘son brother, grandson, nephew, cousin, partner & best friend’.


The sand dunes at Formby south of Southport

The bench has an open view towards the Formby dunes in a peaceful and sunny spot.  Leon James Quarless died tragically on the nearby railway tracks between Freshfield and Formby stations.  A young man who had been a successful footballer, playing for various teams including Walsall FC’s youth team.  Many floral tributes were left for Leon James Quarless over the railway line, showing how much he was loved and will be missed and how many lives he had touched in his 26 years.


Leon James Quarless 1.9.88. – 2.9.14 TE A Happy, Funny, Loving & Caring Son Brother, Grandson, Nephew, Cousin, Partner & Best Friend On His Journey, Loved & Missed More Than Words Can Say. Our Hero Our Boy Forever Young


Brodie Castle near Nairn: Jackie Bruce


The pond in the grounds of Brodie Castle

We took a spring walk around the grounds of Brodie Castle between Nairn and Forres.  Brodie Castle is part of the National Trust for Scotland and is a stunning 16th century turreted house in salmon pink.  Although the house is stuffed to its roof with antiques it was the large estate that we decided to explore.  The gardens have beautiful flowers and lots of walks and we followed the signs to the pond where we found this memorial bench to Jackie Bruce.

The memorial bench caught my eye for the unusual plaque in the shape of a swan-necked copper still used in the whisky distilling industry in Scotland.  I haven’t been able to find out more about the story of Jackie Bruce’s life but surely he either worked in a local whiskey distillery or enjoyed an occasional dram.  Brodie Castle and Nairn are on the edge of the Scottish Speyside malt whisky producing area and near to a number of Scottish whisky distilleries.


A place for you to rest, whether in body or soul.  Lovingly gifted by the family of The late Jackie Bruce Nairn

The ownership of Brodie Castle is an interesting story and was the focus of a bitter family feud among the former owners and residents, the Brodie family.  Ninian Brodie, the former clan chief, sold the castle to the National Trust for Scotland in 1978 as the house was in a state of disrepair and the family could not afford to keep the house and its contents together, a decision that Ninian’s heir was unhappy with.  Ninian Brodie was able to live in a flat in the house as a tenant until he died in 2003.

Wythop: Mike Saunders 1948-2010


Looking over the valley from above Wythop Church

On the beautiful hillside of Sale Fell is this simple memorial bench to Mike Saunders.  Mike Saunders lived in the Cumbrian coastal town of Workington and died at the age of 62-years in the West Cumberland Hospital after an ‘illness bravely borne’.

The memorial plaque told me that Mike Saunders was a good cricketer and a good golfer.  Research revealed that he was an excellent amateur cricket player, playing for Haverigg Cricket Club where he eventually became Captain and for the Cumberland team.  This memorial bench left me with the sense of a much loved man and his obituaries paint a picture of a well thought of man who loved cricket and later golf.  In his working life Mike Saunders started out his working life as a teacher and later worked at nearby Sellafield  Nuclear site.  Mike Saunders was a ‘great husband’ to Val Saunders and in retirement he generously gave his time to the Meals on Wheels service.


In Memory of Mike Saunders Good Cricketer, Good Golfer, Great Husband 1948 – 2010

Sale Fell is one of the smaller Wainwrights, that is the 214 hills listed by Alfred Wainwright in his guidebooks.  The Wainwright Fells range from Scafell Pike at 3,210 feet above sea level down to Castle Crag at just 985 feet.  Between Keswick and Cockermouth, Sale Fell might be small but it is a stunning viewpoint and its steep slopes make it an excellent site for a memorial bench to rest on.  We walked from Wythop Mill’s lovely Church of St Margaret of Antioch that is tucked in to the fellside.  From the fell we had glorious views of the flanks of Skiddaw and on the ridge above Wythop Woods we had a lofty view along the length of Bassenthwaite Lake that glistened blue in the sunshine.